Monday 20 September 2010

Fear!

Fear!
Hello, Good morning

They say fear is "an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a treat…’’

Infact you don’t have to look far to notice ALL pioneers, successful men and women throughout history and even your own ‘role models’, have looked at this word as an acronym, False Evidence Appearing Real; AND SO SHOULD YOU!

Throughout our childhood we develop a ‘Conscious Controlling Mind’, which slowly pushes our conscious mind to one side. Scientific studies suggest that the average person has no control or up to 20% control of their lives.

Its extremely shocking initially but just stop and think about all the control measures that are in place in today’s society from chip and pin, education, fashion trends and even media influences about ‘terrorism’ - all created for purpose with a clear goal to impose control on us. The results of numerous researches by leading psychologists John B Watson, Robert Plutchik to Paul Ekman showed that the bell curve indicating where most people are, relating to their personal growth found that:

•    50% of the people from industrialized nations struggle through life in an illusion, feeling there is no way to succeed or control diseases that confront them.
•    30% know they would like to change their life, yet they don't know how so they are stuck where they are in an illusion so they can't see a way out. It is there right in front of them but fear of making a decision to change stops them. They feel safe, yet there are many suffering in pain or low income in positions or jobs they do not like.
•    Only 15% are making changes in their life to obtain success and happiness.
•    When we realize only 5% are successful it is amazing that so few people are really getting the concept of success. It is more appalling when we check further that less than 3% of this 5% think out of the box and are successful at all levels of their life.

If fear is developed as a result of learning, and at the same time if is perceived to be the acronym ‘false evidence appearing real’, then we should be able to learn how to be fear(less). We can break through any barriers that are currently stopping us from progressing towards our short, medium and long-term goals for friends, family and most importantly ourselves.

Lets start to imagine ourselves taking the necessary steps in conquering the false evidence that is in front of us.  Let me ask you a question how many of you have  ‘REALLY’ been committed to setting your goals, staying focused, modelling someone; all the things we talk about every week?

If you have then your one step ahead and starting to fall within the 15% research has shown to be the start of the successful category, which is a good place to start don’t you think?

Lets start to control the one thing that everyone is given for free, that’s our MIND, and lets attack all this ‘false evidence’ that ‘appears real’ with full force.

A wise man once said to me "resisting change is futile, use the opportunity and grow with the situation".

Fear is a limiting - Use this week to understand your strenghts and break all limitations.

Have a brilliant and fearless week - I know you can and will do!

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